Customs/ Culture

Courtship

The old ones would cherish the precious moments of courtship during their time. A man would bring with him his guitar and try to get the lady’s attention at night by a “harana” or singing the love songs. The lady would then invite the man inside the house. A man courted the lady (usually took a lot of time) and got the consent of the parents of the girl and the wedding proposals follow. The man had to render service to the parents of the girl called “pangagad” like tilling the fields, pounding rice, fetching water, gather firewood or building a new house. In the late 1970’s, these practices started to fade as influenced by modern culture.